Now I remember why I don’t like having guys as friends. The problem is this whole boy/girl tension thing. And…you know…flirting.
So I may have given my dear friend Jar the wrong idea today. Well no, I definitely did. I was just trying to do what I said I was going to do, which is make more guy friends, and be closer with the ones I have. But I forgot about the fact that you really shouldn’t flirt with potential guy best friends. Whoopsies.
So I may have invited him over to my house. And we may have had a pillow fight. And then I may have watched the sunset with him and laid down on his chest while we looked at stars. So maybe he got flirting out of that. But I swear, it wasn’t on purpose. I’m really not interested in Jar that way. I just think he’s really fun and he likes driving fast and talking about everything and anything, and I thought we could be really good friends.
Anyway, regardless of how it happened, this is the conversation that ensued:
Jar(with my head on his chest): “So have you ever kissed a boy?”
Kay: (???!!!!!!???) “Excuse me?”
Jar: “Come on, tell me!”
Kay: (If a peck on the lips from my 6th grade boyfriend counts) “Yes.”
Kay: “Not telling.”
Kay: “So Jar, ever kissed a girl?”
Jar: ” Nope.” (Leans closer to Kay)
Kay: (Sits up abrubtly) “Isn’t that your ride?”
Jar: “I don’t think so…”
Kay: “Well-anyway-this-was-fun-we-should-do-it-again-sometime-thanks-so-much-bye!” (Walks away as fast as possible without looking suspicious)
Jar: (Bewildered look)
Maybe not such a promising start to a friendship. I’ve got to stop doing this to myself!